While having lunch today with a really interesting personality, I had this question come up "Why is the grass greener on the other side"?. To my surprise he threw the answer right back at me, "Because you ain't taking proper care of your side". Was there a hidden meaning in his answer?
All day long as I was thinking on what he actually meant, I realized that he has given me the secret to success. Every individual in this world admires successful people and strive to become one. People look at the end product, not the steps taken to achieve it. They do everything that was done before hoping for a miracle. But will that happen? The important factor which people forget in life is that every person is different and unique. There is no magic bullet that will solve all the problems in the world. You have to find the uniqueness you hold and carve the path to success.
People around you will not stop for any reason. No one is indispensable in this world. Everyone has a replacement. Finding your position in this world is in itself a humungous task. Once you get it right, the atmosphere that was clouding your vision clears up and yes, you can see you path. Until you get it right, you will lose balance in life, experience some downfalls, face some rejections and even get dejected in life. All I would say, "Hang in there. God's delays are not God's denials".